mxnotmrdarcy asked: Can we also make sure to include a way for flagging Asexual? and Asexual but interested in a relationship?
sparkly pink argyle nails :3 [[MORE]]
My first attempt at femme flagging
femmesandfamily: I made up my own code, and I’m terrible at painting nails - BUT WHATEVER. First, the left hand. Thumb: Pink/Yellow for Misandry Ring and pointer: Blue/Pink for Always Consent Always Middle: Red/Pink for Power Bottom Pinkie: Yellow for Fat Now the right! Thumb: Clear forQueer Ring and pointer: Blue/Pink for Always Consent Always Middle: Red/Blue forFisting Pinkie:...
doctorinvertsugar asked: I love the concept of femme flagging with nail color, and I support the idea of curating a new glossary of meanings, but if everyone makes up their own meanings, then flagging becomes obsolete because illegible. Are there plans to make it more legible through standardisation or something?
I’m perhaps only femme sometimes, but I love the idea of femme flagging. Burgundy for (interest in) fisting and because it’s a pretty fierce color. “Fucking fingers” (penetration fingers) left plain burgundy (they can’t be fancy- they have to do work!). Silver tips for poly, black stripes for a little kink, and thumb is clear (with burgundy stripe) for queer.
champagnebutter-deactivated2013 asked: I ID as pansexual, bisexual and as a dyke/lesbian but not queer, and I present hyperfeminine (not sure if femme is anything to do with that?) but I'm not sure if 'femme' is right for me (seems more for white and queer people) and so I don't want to appropriate femme flagging from white queers if brown dyke aren't welcome x
teapartyghosts asked: You say there should be colors for allies... However, I think there should be colors for everyone. Perhaps one of the fingers you paint means hetero and the other means not? Middle means hetero, ring means not? Then do the left/rights as sub/dom? Being bisexual and in a straight relationship, I am feeling highly left out of this.