femme flagging

purrversatility:

So even though it’s been said that this painting the ring finger isn’t ACTUALLY always a femme flagging technique after all I’m going to use it that way cause why not as a queer femme I’m invisible anyway unless I beat people with clue-by-fours (though here’s a bunch of femme flagging techniques). I did my shellac with a colour I thought would be more fuchsia (spanking) but turned out red (fisting) both of which I top and bottom for so fair enough. All other nails are silver rainbow glitter, which apparently means starfucker/celebrity. ;)

Looking further into all this however I’m totally confused because I’m reading all sorts of colour listings that aren’t in the expanded hanky list- but there’s no formal list, it seems like people are just making things up individually (kind of maybe missing the point of flagging, which is so that you can express mutual interest and start a negotiation, right…?)

I’m such a Capricorn. Hah.

Flagging I’m interested in:

-poly

-fuck the patriarchy

-fuck capitalism

-stoplights/radical consent

-femme for femme

-blue apparently stands for survivor and not any of the things I thought blue stood for?

Tumblr femmes, please help me. I don’t want to flag for something I’m not intending, because that feels appropriative. Is it just “make up your own”, cause then I’ll stick with the traditional expanded code.

felisaloveforrealz:

Yes, I change my nail color every week.

felisaloveforrealz:

Fisting and bondage.

I very much enjoy letting people know how I like to fuck. At least the people that get it. ;]

Hot pink with glitter=unicorn 

Red with glitter on the left and right =femme daddy fisting switch 

rodentistry:

~femme flagging~

pink with glitter - unicorn

red and black on right ring finger - fist fuckee and SM bottom

[I like the idea of using the ring fingers as the accent nails on either hand to indicate one’s kink(s)… I also don’t like having too many colors of nail polish, so this keeps things simple for me.]

I. Love. Nail Polish.

(P.S. until there’s a well-followed code for femme flagging, I am going by the hanky code. I’m lazy. oh boo)